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December, January, February 2007-08
Kislev, Tevet, Sh'vat, Adar 1, 5768

In this issue: 

Articles
Two Years of Change: a message from the Tsofah by Annette Olson
Eitz Or: Working together as a Community by Annette Olson

Holidays, Shabbats & Events
Eitz Or's Shabbatons with Reb Arik Labowitz
Havdallah Gatherings with Torah Study with Rabbi Fern Feldman
Chanukah Party by Miriam Driss
Eitz Or's Pesach Celebration by Kate and Mark Ukelson
Soul Stirring Discussions by Miriam Forman

Tikkun Olam/ Healing the World
One Wool Blanket: musings on warmth, cold and homelessness by Elizabeth Rothman

Community News
Giving Service puts a Smile on My Face: on volunteering for Eitz Or by Miriam Forman
the Eitz Or Community: Thanks and Blessings
Congregation Eitz Or: About Us
Eitz Or Membership and Community Donations Form
Eitz Or Winter Events Calendar

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ARTICLES

Two Years of Change: a message from the Tsofah

by Annette Olson


Dear members and friends of Eitz Or,


This is my last article as Tsofah (President) of Congregation Eitz Or. My term ends at our Annual Business Meeting on Sunday, 3 February 2008. I will continue, however, to serve on the newly established Coordinating Council for another year, helping to see Eitz Or through our transition to a new, team-based system of community organization (more about this later).


The past two years have been a time of great change for our community. We have been challenged to look at our stumbling blocks and to learn what is truly important to us. We are learning to celebrate what we do well, to let go of things that we don't, and to revision ourselves as a truly community-led community.


And we did not face this challenge alone. Many good, capable teachers brought us many gifts in the past two years. Rabbi Daniel Siegel and Rabbi Hannah Tiferet-Siegel helped us begin to heal our community. Reb Cynthia Gayle showed us how to ground our Visioning in ruach (spirit). Rabbi Shefa Gold challenged us to take responsibility for our spiritual practice and to look for strength within our community. Dear Reb Arik Labowitz made a large place in his life to lead our services and teach us about our heritage. And many other mentors from within our community gently guided and supported the Shomerim (board) in our leadership. I am so grateful for the love of the Holy One manifest in these good people.


And we have begun to acknowledge our strengths and put them to good work. I appreciate that ours is a community where people come to meetings and speak up to challenge, to question, to suggest. And whether stepping forward to lead, showing up to help, or simply joining in prayer and song, each of us makes our community what it is today.


Now we stand together at another turning: We are letting go of our old "top-down" model of organization. We enter the coming year Under New Management! Committees, teams, working groups, whatever we decide to call them, will share the work and responsibility that too often has fallen to a few leaders. We will all become leaders.


To make room for this change, those of us who have led must step back a bit, so the end of my term as Tsofah is timely for the evolution of Eitz Or. Other members of the Shomerim will step down, but continue to serve Eitz Or in various ways. Joe Puchot and I will form the core of our new Coordinating Council. And, as we go to press, initial meetings of new working groups for Shabbat, High Holy Days, Jewish Learning, Tikkun Olam, and G'milut Hasidim are being scheduled! We expect to hear from those groups at the Annual Business Meeting in February.


As my role in Eitz Or changes, the Shekhinah is teaching me to find a deeper healing in my personal life. I want and need the personal space to better give and receive love in my family, to do some important work in the world, and to find my way back to science and the sea.


Yesterday I attended my first Soul Stirrings discussion. I was present, not as Tsofah or any kind of leader, but as simply another soul, stirring. It was lovely.


B'Shalom

Ruth Annette

your people shall be my people


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Eitz Or: Working together as a community
by Annette Olson, Tsofah

Members of Eitz Or have begun to explore a new vision of how we work together as a community, a model of organization that better suits our intimate, spiritual community. At the Vision Meeting on November 11th, 27 members talked about how we could change from a "top-down" to a "bottom-up" approach for organizing Eitz Or's services, classes and other events. In the bottom -up model, members working together in small groups make decisions, hold responsibility, and produce the programs of our community.

After a brief review of the budget by Joe Puchot, several members spoke of their visions for different aspects of Eitz Or. Terry Walsh spoke of her ideas for Family and Children's programs; Ellen Jablow shared her commitment to weekly Shabbat observance within our community; and Barak Gale spoke of new directions for Eitz Or in healing the world (Tikkun Olam).

To help us visualize our new structure we did two community exercises. In the first exercise, each member voted for the programs they want to see Eitz Or maintain, by placing colored dots on posters for each of six program areas (below). (Members who did not attend the meeting had the opportunity to respond in a questionnaire format.) It was great to see the colors add up as members showed what they valued in Eitz Or!

In the second community exercise, members put their names on a chart of committees or working groups (below) that would be needed to produce the programs we had voted on in the first exercise. For each of these areas, one person came forward to host an initial meeting for each program area.

Program Area

Description

Host

Coordinating Council

budget, personnel, liaison with working groups, etc.

Annette Olson

Shabbat

professionally led services, lay-led services, Come Home to Shabbat, havdalah

Gail Gensler

High Holy Days

an all-community meeting to re-envision HHD will be held in late winter

Miriam Forman

Tikkun Olam

ongoing commitments, or one-time events, for healing the world

Joe King

Jewish Learning

adult, teen, b'nei mitzvah, children/family programs

Terry Walsh

G'milut Hasidim

call list for helping members in need

Miriam Forman


As they begin to take up the work of our community, the working groups will have certain responsibilities as well as resources available to them:

Responsibilities
seek input from the Eitz Or community
organize event(s): arrange venue, leader, etc.), recruit volunteers, provide for publicity
liaison with coordinating committee (board) and Administrator
Resources
budget
guidance from coordinating committee (board) and Administrator
handbooks for organizing some events

Each working group will decide its own internal structure whether or not to have a chair or sub-committees, how often to meet, how to interact with the other groups and the coordinating council, etc.

We will all have an opportunity to hear about the initial meetings at the Annual Business Meeting on Sunday, February 3rd, 2008.

This is an exciting time in the life of our community.  I can't tell you how heartening it was to see members' dedication as we discussed our wants and needs and began to organize ourselves in new ways to serve our beloved community.
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HOLIDAYS, SHABBATS & EVENTS


Eitz Or's Upcoming Shabbats
Shabbatons with Reb Arik Labowitz

December 13-15, 2007
January 17-19, 2008
February 14-16, 2008

We are delighted that Reb Arik Labowitz will be back with the Eitz Or community for three monthly Shabbatons this winter. He will continue his Thursday evening Study Sessions, using contemplative song to open our hearts, text study to awaken our minds, and meditations to open our souls. In December he will finish his series "Ways of Wonder- Chassidic Teachings on Creation", and will be begin a new series in January based on themes that come from the community's suggestions.

The Chasidic-style joy of our Shabbat celebrations with Reb Arik will take a variety of forms this winter. In December and February, the Friday night gatherings will be a warm welcoming of Shabbat with stories and song. In January we will have a more full Erev Shabbat service, including the traditional prayers as well as songs. On Saturday, January 19th, Reb Arik will lead a green Tu B'Shvat Celebration in honor of the New Years of the Trees. In February, Reb Arik will be joined by his wife, Aliza Rothman Labowitz, to lead a special gathering, actually two gatherings. Aliza, an experienced leader of Jewish women's groups, will lead a women's circle, while Reb Arik will lead the men. As they unfold, more details about all these gatherings will come your way.

Reb Arik Labowitz from Berkeley, California, has been teaching Jewish spirituality and leading Jewish services and life-cycle rituals for the past thirteen years. An accomplished musician, Arik has published an album of Jewish music that includes his own original songs. Reb Arik recently served for four years as a Rabbinic Assistant at Beth Chaim Congregation in Danville, California.

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Havdallah Gatherings with Torah Study with Rabbi Fern Feldman
Saturday, December 8th
Saturday, January 5th
Saturday, February 2nd

Eitz Or is very pleased to welcome back Rabbi Fern Feldman to lend her insights and knowledgeable guidance to our study of Torah at monthly winter Havdalah Gatherings.

Rabbi Fern writes, "Late in the day on Shabbat, the time of the mincha service, is called an 'eit ratzon,' a time of favor. The longer we have been resting in Shabbat, the greater the potential for intimacy with the Source. It is also the time when we start examining the upcoming week's Torah reading. On these Shabbatot, we will gather together to davven, sing and study Torah from multiple perspectives including feminist, literary, and Chasidic. Please bring a Chumash if you would like to see the text."

Rabbi Fern Feldman received her ordination from Aleph: Alliance for Jewish Renewal. She teaches and learns a variety of Jewish topics, including Torah, liturgy, Hebrew, mysticism, ethics, and more. She leads services, rituals and life cycle events for individuals and communities, and is a nurse working with people with AIDS.


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Eitz Or's Winter Holiday Events


Eitz Or's Chanukah Party by Miriam Driss
December 9th : 4:30-7:00 pm 
UUC Social Hall (6556 35th Avenue N.E. in Seattle)
Led by Miriam Driss
Vegetarian Dinner Potluck. Latkes will be provided.

Eitz Or's Chanukah party is happening soon.  Here's the plan, for a fun, festive and musical event.
  
In the past, we have hosted a latke making contest.  This year we have another kind of contest:  a Latke Topping Contest.  We will have awards for flavor, consistency and uniqueness. Latkes will be provided, and attendees are asked to bring a potluck dish.
 
We'll start by Playing Dreidel with gelt and other yummy things to eat.  Then we will have a Communal Menorah Lighting Ceremony. You are invited to bring your menorah and candles and join in.
 
After lighting the menorahs, we'll sit down to a festive meal followed by Chanukah Storytelling.  Miriam Driss will start by sharing stories, and she welcomes anyone with a favorite Chanukah story to share there's, too.
 
After stories, Sue Libow will introduce us to the many delights of Chanukah Karaoke.
 
Thanks to Hannah Halpern for organizing logistics and decorations and more.
 
There is no entrance fee for this event and all are invited, however donations will happily be accepted.
 
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Eitz Or's Pesach Celebration
by Kate and Mark Ukelson

We will be coordinating Eitz Or's Pesach Celebration this year.  The community gathering will be held on the 8th Night, and the evening will center on learning about and celebrating this tradition.  We will also be coordinating private 1st and 2nd night Seders so that all Eitz Or members who want to can share in a Seder with others in our community.  We will encourage you to invite guests from Eitz Or whom you haven't previously shared a dinner or Seder with. 

Stay tuned for specific information via email or phone.  If your contact information is not correct in the directory, please call the Eitz Or hotline at (206) 467-2617, or email info@eitzor.org. 

Happy Channukah!

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Soul Stirring Discussions
Now in their second year, Delphine Bowers and Miriam Forman continue to facilitate monthly discussions about our personal spiritual journeys and the stirrings of our souls. They hope to create a safe container in which to recognize, share and honor this essential part of our journey. Discussion themes for Fall were "forgiveness" in September, "courage" in October, and "duty" in November. Come and blend your special flavor to create a holy soup which will nourish us all.

Soul Stirrings meet at 9:30 a.m. at the Third Place book store on 6504 20th Avenue NE on the fourth Thursday of every month.

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Tikkun Olam / Healing the World


One Wool Blanket: musings on warmth, cold and homelessness
by Elizabeth Rothman

I have been thinking a lot about the way our comfortable life becomes invisible to us, so we send caviar or cookies in food aid packages to Africa (I've seen it, I swear) and expensive running shoes and computers to people with no running water, etc. I've been thinking about the winter coming on again. Some of your neighborhoods may not be this way, but in my neck of the woods we who have warm, safe shelter have the homeless clearly among us, camping under highway ramps, in green spaces, and so on. I'm grateful, as I know we all are, not to have to be out in these dark, rainy nights. It gets overwhelming sometimes, and hard to know how to help. It's hard to get to a meeting and hard to know if our sitting and talking about it at the meeting helps, it's hard sometimes to know if taking the time to write a letter helps, and certainly it's a complete waste of time to forward and sign on-line petitions. Which aid organization pays its director as if she was a corporate CEO instead of using that money for the intended recipients? Which one is so mired in inefficiencies that they accomplish less than they intend to with my money? What is the right thing to do?

I was getting out the blankets the other day. I took one wool blanket that is a bit threadbare and always wrinkles up on the bed, to put in the bag for Goodwill. Then I thought better of it and threw it in my car. Last night, driving home from a job at 9 or so, I came to one of those ramps that shelters people with no shelter. Five or six people were lined up, wrapped in sleeping bags, their possessions beside them. Then I saw one guy still sitting up. He had a blanket around his shoulders and he was sitting with his shoulders tight and hunched over. I rolled down my window and asked if he wanted a blanket. I think he wasn't sure how to respond, maybe wasn't sure what I had said. I thrust the blanket out the window and he slowly stood and walked over to my car. He was young, in his 30s, and he hesitated, with his mouth hanging open a bit, as if he was shocked into incomprehension. Then his eyes locked on mine, and very quietly, gruffly, he said, "God Bless you, Ma'am, God Bless you" as he took the blanket from me. He turned away from my car and went back to his mat, wrapping my unwanted blanket around himself. I drove away with tears in my eyes.

I guess I got the idea when I was in New York last month. I bought a great shawl on the street for $10- love those street vendors, and I have a weakness for jackets and coats. Then I worried about the fact that really I don't need another shawl and also how to get it home- there wasn't spare room in my luggage. I had brought a shawl with me- they're great blankets on the plane and they are easy to pack- so I carried that 'old' one around with me while I was traveling the subways and streets. One day I passed a woman who looked to be in her 70s, slight and slim, sitting with her begging cup on the floor of the subway station hallway. I offered her my extra shawl, and in heavily accented English she asked, "What for?" I mimed wrapping myself up, and her eyes brightened and she thanked me, quietly and then louder, again, as I headed for my train.

It was so simple. It made such a tangible difference to someone. It gave me a bit of relief to my despair, and I like to believe maybe it did the same for her, and last night, for him. The problem is not far away, the problem is here, the people are our neighbors. They are not threatening or dangerous, by and large. If you feel you ought to do more, if you don't know what to do, if it all takes more time and commitment than you can manage, maybe you can take a moment and benefit from my inspired moment. Take one of the jackets you never wear, or a blanket you never use, or go and pick up a blanket at the goodwill or value village for a few dollars- five will probably and ten will certainly buy you a nice one. Throw it in your car, and when you pass someone on the side of the road who looks cold, or lost, offer it out your window.

I talk too much, I know.

Warm thoughts as we get to the season of light-
Elizabeth


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EITZ OR COMMUNITY NEWS

Giving Service puts a Smile on My Face: on volunteering for Eitz Or

by Miriam Forman

Giving service is work that needs no appreciation
and yet is much appreciated. 
 
Giving service puts a smile on my face
which is worth more than any amount of money in my pocket. 
 
I appreciate the results so much more
and that is its own reward.

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The Eitz Or Community: Thanks and Blessings

Welcome to our new and returning members
A warm welcome to all who are joining or re-joining us after a break:
Sarah Taus
Akiva Segan
Lori Eagle
Peter Huth
Maxxine Smith


Thank You's
Todah rabah to all of Eitz Or supporters including:

Tree M assisting with administration duties
Gail G and Miriam F for holy coordination of the High Holy Days
Annette O for steadfastly leading the Shomerim
Barak G & all the Other Mitzvah Makers for feeding homeless teens
Claire L for dedicated Mishkan Coordination
Mishkan volunteers for committed care of our gathering places
Deborah H for devoted Shomerim and secretarial tasks and beyond
Miriam F and Delphine B for loyally facilitating our Soul Stirring Discussions
Reb Arik, Rabbi Harry, Reb Olivier, Miriam B & Barak G for soulful Service leadership
Terry W and Ellen J for creatively supporting of our Children's Programming
Gail G and the other mailers for lovingly labeling the newsletters and brochures
Araya S for faithfully keeping the books
Joe P and Steve S for devoted guidance of Eitz Or's Programming


Donations
Thank you so much to our many supporters of Eitz Or's special funds including:

Tikkun Olam Fund:
Joe King

High Holy Day Supporters: 
Wendy and Catherine Harris/Carter
Tree McCurdy and Elric Wolfsbruder
Deborah Hyman
Carole & David Rish
Laura Strauss
Terry Walsh
David Sokal
Steve Cohn
Lee Cronbach
Annette & Charlie Olson/Halpern
Avner Aharoni,
Moses Rifkin
Araya Sol

Blessings

Wishing a speedy recovery, refuah sh'leima, to

Jokhanah Ennes for healing for her Achilles heal
Penelope Koven who is recovering from major surgery
Mira Lieberman for relief from back pain
Elizabeth Rothman for the healing of her broken ankle
Judith Winter for full healing from a persistent illness

Wishing heartfelt condolences to 
Araya Sol over her loss of beloved Ruby

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Congregation Eitz Or: About Us
Congregation Eitz Or is a warm and welcoming Jewish Renewal community that celebrates Judaism with joy and spiritual depth. We practice Torah (study), avodah (service), and g'milut hasidim (acts of loving kindness) by engaging the real issues affecting our lives. Congregation Eitz Or is a member of ALEPH: Alliance for Jewish Renewal.
 
Location for Services
We hold most of our services and events at the University Unitarian Church (UUC), which is located at 6556 35th Ave. NE in Seattle. Most services take place in the Nathan Johnson Social Hall on the main (upper) floor. All services are wheelchair accessible. UUC offers some onsite parking in its lot on the south side of the building. Metro routes 64, 65, 71, 76, 83 and more serve this area.
 
Traditions of Respect
Vegetarian potluck meals are a regular part of our community life. We ask everyone to bring a dish that can feed up to eight people. In the spirit of eco-kashrut, we ask that you bring reusable dishware and utensils for our meals. We request that people refrain from wearing fragrances at services and gatherings to enable those who are chemically sensitive to attend.
 
Events and News
For the latest information about Eitz Or events, visit our website
www.eitzor.org, call the hotline (206.467.2617) or join our Eitz Or Friends email list (info@eitzor.org).
 
Communication with Eitz Or
We want to hear from you!  
Write to:  PO Box 15480, Seattle, WA 98115
E-mail: info@eitzor.org
Hotline: 206.467.2617 (Please leave a message.)

Community Involvement
At Eitz Or, we practice a mitzvah consciousness that extends to the world of Assiyah (doing). We welcome the involvement of members with everything from preparing our space for Shabbat services to shaping our liturgy to practicing tikkun olam (healing the world). Contact a member of the Shomerim to talk about how you can get more involved.
 
Shomerim (Board of Directors)
The Shomerim (guardians of our community) invite you to contact them with your questions and ideas.
 
Tsofah (President):  Annette Olson, tsofah@eitzor.org
Ohtzer (Treasurer):  Joe Puchot, treasurer@eitzor.org 
Communications:  Deborah Hyman, communications@eitzor.org
Administration:  Zann Jacobrown, 206.467.2617, info@eitzor.org
Liturgy & Services:  Steve Schwartz, liturgy@eitzor.org
Program Coordinator: Joe Puchot, treasurer@eitzor.org 
Tikkun Olam:  Barak Gale, tikkunolam@eitzor.org
 
Committee Chairs
High Holy Days: Gail Gensler & Miriam Forman, hhd@eitzor.org

Adult Learning:   Pablo Stanfield, adulted@eitzor.org
Mishkan:   Claire Lumina, mishkan@eitzor.org 
G'milut Hasidim:   Elizabeth Rothman, gimiluthasidim@eitzor.org

Alei Eitz Or Newsletter
We publish this newsletter quarterly and welcome community contributions. Please contact the editor: Zann Jacobrown, info@eitzor.org, 206.467.2617
 
Alei Eitz Or Contributors
Kate and Mark Ukelson, Miram Driss, Elizabeth Rothman, Miriam Forman, Annette Olson and Joe Puchot

Winter AEO Deadline: February 1, 2007

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Eitz Or Membership & Community Donations Form

__Renewing member __New member __Please send me more information about becoming a member.

CONTACT INFORMATION
(Your private information will never be shared or sold.)
Name _______________________________________
Email ________________________________________
Spouse/Partner _________________________________
Email ________________________________________
Address ______________________________________
City/State/Zip __________________________________
Home Phone ___________________________________
Work Phone(s) _________________________________
Child's Name/Birthday ___________________________
Child's Name/Birthday ___________________________
 
ANNUAL MEMBERSHIP DUES PLEDGE FOR NEW OR RENEWING MEMBERS
Your pledge helps meet the operating expenses of Eitz Or.

Annual household income Suggested membership pledge/dues
Less than $40,000 0.5- 1% $200- $400
$40,000 -$80,000 1.5% $600-$1200 
$80,000 -$120,000 2.0% $1600-$2400
More than $120,000 2.5% $3000+ 

Annual Dues

=_____

Annual Dues Payment schedule:

__ Quarterly ___ Annually

Enclosed Dues

=_____

ALEPH Dues

= $36


TOTAL SEPTEMBER PAYMENT


= ____



 COMMUNITY DONATION
Vision Fund ______
Tikkun Olam Fund ______
General Fund ______
 
In Memory/ Honor of _________________________
Send card to_________________________________

Payment Options
Please send this form along with your check, payable to Congregation Eitz Or, with
this form to Congregation Eitz Or, PO Box 15480, Seattle, WA 98115

If you prefer, we can charge your VISA or Mastercard.
Account # _______________
Exp.Date________
For quarterly dues, I authorize charges on 9/30/07, 12/25/07, 3/30/08, 6/30/08

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Congregation Eitz Or Calendar
December, January, February 2007- 08 / 5768


* Please contact info@eitzor.org or the Eitz Or Hotline (206-467-2617) for updates

December Kislev/ Tevet



Saturday

8

TBA
(evening)

Havdallah Gathering with Rabbi Fern Feldman
Davven, Sing and Study Torah

Member's home *

Sunday

9

4:30 pm

Chanukah Party: Stories, Chanukah Karaoke & Latke Topping Contest. Vegetarian potluck. Latkes provided.

UUC Social Hall
(6556 35th Ave NE)

Thursday

13

7:00 pm

Workshop/ Study Session led by Arik Labowitz
"Ways of Wonder ? Chassidic Teachings on Creation." Session 3

member's home*

Friday

14

7:30 pm

Welcoming Shabbat w/ Songs & Stories
led by Arik Labowitz
followed by a dessert potluck.

UUC Knatvold Rm
(downstairs)

Saturday

15

10:00 am

Shabbat Morning Service led by Arik Labowitz
followed by a vegetarian potluck lunch: Parashat Vayigash

UUC Knatvold Rm
(downstairs)

Thursday

27

9:30 am

Soul Stirring Discussion led by
Miriam Forman & Delphine Bowers.

Third Place Books
Ravenna

January Tevet/ Shevat


Saturday

5

TBA
(evening)

Havdallah Gathering with Rabbi Fern Feldman
Davven, Sing and Study Torah.

Member's home*

Thursday

17

7:00 pm

Workshop/ Study Session with Arik Labowitz

Member's home*

Friday

18

7:30 pm

Erev Shabbat Service led by Arik Labowitz
followed by a dessert potluck.

UUC Knatvold Rm
(downstairs)

Saturday

19

4:30 pm

Tu B'Shvat Celebration led by Arik Labowitz
followed by vegetarian potluck lunch.

UUC Knatvold Rm

Thursday

24

9:30 am

Soul Stirring Discussion led by
Miriam Forman & Delphine Bowers.

Third Place Books
Ravenna

February Shevat/ Adar



Saturday

2

TBA*
(evening)

Havdallah Gathering with Rabbi Fern Feldman
Davven, Sing and Study Torah.

Member's home*

Sunday

3

3:00 pm

Eitz Or Members' Annual Meeting

UUC Knatvold Rm?

Thursday

14

7:00 pm

Workshop/ Study Session led by Arik Labowitz

Member's home*

Friday

15

7:30 pm

Welcoming Shabbat w/ Songs & Stories
led by Arik Labowitz
followed by a dessert potluck.

UUC Knatvold Rm

Saturday

16

10:30 am

Shabbat Morning Service led by Arik Labowitz
(short & sweet Service with no Torah Service or potluck.)

TBA*

Saturday

16

TBA*
(evening)

Men's Gathering led by Arik Labowitz.
Women's Gathering led by Aliza Rothman Labowitz followed by a vegetarian potluck dinner.

TBA*

Thursday

28

9:30 am

Soul Stirring Discussion led by
Miriam Forman & Delphine Bowers.

Third Place Books
Ravenna


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